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![]() Are You Born Again?orKeep Looking at Your Friend!
They wondered if the problem was a lack of fellowship. But that turned out to be a deadend street. The patients refused to be sociable. They tried to develop a statement of mission--it was ignored. They considered a lack of resources may be the problem and took up an offering--no one gave. In the end, the med students discovered to their dismay that the people in the lab all had a common problem. They were not breathing ... they weren't even alive. I grew up being friends with Kelly. Our parents attended school together and as the years passed, our families often enjoyed each other's company. My friendship with Kelly continued through elementary school, high school and college. We did a lot together and enjoyed talking about all kinds of things. We gave each other encouragement and advise, and I remember romances that were improved because I followed Kelly's counsel. On more than one occasion, friends of mine suggested that I consider dating Kelly. Many of Kelly's friends suggested that she and I would make a great couple. At first, neither of us gave the matter much serious thought. Then our parents began dropping hints in that direction and I remember taking a new look at Kelly. She was cute, bright, fun to be around, athletic, outdoorsey, and spiritual. All qualities I deemed necessary for a life companion. I'm not sure how many of those adjectives Kelly felt applied to me, but the truth is, we both decided to seriously pursue a romance together. Then came an insurmountable problem. Neither of us seemed able to fall in love with the other. We tried! We went on official dates. We worked at it. We agreed that we were right for each other. We couldn't imagine having more in common with any one else. We discussed our inability to "click." Try as we might, there was no redhot flame, in fact, there wasn't even a spark. It was really quite discouraging to have finally found that perfect person and then realize that you would rather swallow gravel than kiss, snuggle or hold hands. We finally gave up trying.
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